The expectations

The expectations
The expectation ion the human mind lead the us to troubles expectation major weakness with us. People are tending to expect lots of things from the other people and never think what we hacek really with us. How come Buddhism the ideas from the Buddhism also same as sthe the expectation idea. If we don’t expect anything we don’t have any troubles.
But I’m talking about something different. How do survive in the society without having difficulties. What is the nice word for the selfishness…. The independency may be the word is joke. but I like to be independence and that I’m ready to bear any trouble which can come forward to me and I guarantee that I have the enough strength to bear it. Yes they independency is very important if you are not independent then you are trouble make for the others. But uphill we are free from the parents we are bond to them we should respect their obligations. But when it comes to the society how you should deal with society this and that…..
I think the independency is very important fact that you have the strength to survive with what you have and you can do with it. However people don’t understand what is the goodness of this independency people think that being selfish(independent) is worse and we should stuck with community as a net and do whatever with the other people to gain the communal enlighten. But I think achieving communal goal might be impossible if you are so attach with other people. Most of the innovator those who change the world were hiding in the society and struggle to find a place in society y and came out with insane solutions which the society never thought about.
Like that if you don’t expect more from the others you get your own freedom to whatever you want to do in the future. And also the lazy man thinks that the society should feed him because the society made him hungry. The idea is completely wrong that’s why our society don’t go forward we think standing in one position and we expect the other people to come around and dance with us . We never think that we are not the best in the world and we are worse than another country in the world.
The India developing faster because they don’t expect anything from the others and they are digging for their own wealth from the Indian soil which they can hit more wisely. But we are thing that the development should come from the ocean not from the land therefore we are open the mouth ad [possible as we can and waiting in the shore for the development of the society.
So my advice is don’t expect others to take care of you think how strong you are and get on your own agenda as free as possible..